BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Truesay!
The problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts, while the stupid ones are full of confidence.
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| — | Charles Bukowski (via anenlighteningellipses) |
What does virginity mean to a queer person, who may never have vaginal intercourse in her/his/hir life? What of a lesbian who chooses to never engage in any sort of penetrative sex act her entire life, does she remain some sort of super, extra virgin? If a straight man receives a blowjob, he will in all likelihood still consider himself a virgin, but a gay man receiving a blowjob may have a more complicated understanding of what it means for his sex life. In many ways, our conception of “virginity” erases or invalidates queer sex.
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Virginity: Ditch It (sexposgrrrl) I was once asked if I was still a virgin. I was 24 years old and my girlfriend, who I’d been dating for ten months at the time, was sitting right next to me. At the rage that unleashed upon this question my girlfriend later scolded me, saying “Now everybody knows you’re still a virgin!” I was a little confused, because, well, I had had sex before. With her. Apparantly sex only counts when there’s a penis penetrating a vagina. I guess I’ll stay virgin forever. (via relax-o-vision) |
